It's really like entering in another person's life. You have a great sense of internal and external dialog. Feelings, thoughts, movements and sensations are well expressed, telling you this as a not english speaking person. I can follow perfectly your work.
About Iris question... I think if you live some experience the most important is that you've lived it and how will you transform that in a valuable knowledge, no one will do it like you. Many persons could be in the same experience and you can say that there will be as many experiences like persons. Even if this experience is a marriage, each one has a point of view, some times contradictory!!
I send a big hug, @Cain, is a pleasure to read your work!! All the best for every project!! :)